Upgrinds
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Take Notes ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ ๐Ÿ’ฌ Comment "FST" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Iโ€™ll give you a book ๐Ÿ“– that helps you impress any girl on text ๐Ÿ’Œ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿง  Comment "Mind" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Get a book ๐Ÿ“– that helps you unmask manipulation tactics ๐Ÿ•ต๏ธโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ” (100% proven methods โœ…) ๐Ÿ’ป Comment "Code" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Grab a book ๐Ÿ“– that guides you to build a legacy of success ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿš€ ๐Ÿงฒ Comment "Magnetic" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Receive a book ๐Ÿ“– that teaches you how to master the art of charm โœจ๐Ÿ˜Ž (100% proven methods โœ…) ๐Ÿ‘ฉ Comment "Female" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Get a book ๐Ÿ“– that helps you understand & control girls ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐ŸŒ‘ Comment "Dark" ๐Ÿ‘‰ Unlock the book ๐Ÿ“– on Dark Psychology ๐Ÿงฉ๐Ÿ–ค to manipulate & control people ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ•ต๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ Before You Approach: 1. Shift your mindset. Donโ€™t approach to get something (a number, IG, validation). Approach to give - your presence, a compliment, or positive energy. If theyโ€™re not receptive? Thatโ€™s okay. You showed up with generosity. 2. Get out of your head. You donโ€™t need the perfect line. Avoid being the person who stares but never moves. The longer you hesitate, the harder it gets. During the Conversation: 3. Use your context. Let the setting be the icebreaker: - Leaving the gym? โ€œWhat did you train today?โ€ - At a coffee shop? โ€œWhat are you working on?โ€ - At an event? โ€œWhat brings you here?โ€ 4. Be present. Donโ€™t plan your next line - listen. Create a space where people feel safe and seen. 5. Follow your curiosity. Ask follow-ups based on what they say: - โ€œYouโ€™re working on a pitch? Whatโ€™s it about?โ€ - โ€œLeg day? Respect. Whatโ€™s your go-to exercise?โ€ 6. Keep your body open. Face them directly, keep arms relaxed, and maintain soft eye contact. Your body should say: โ€œIโ€™m here and open.โ€ 7. Be a loud listener. Nod. Smile. Say โ€œmhmm,โ€ โ€œyeah,โ€ or โ€œoh wow.โ€ Show youโ€™re engaged. 8. Find shared ground. Connection comes from shared values or experiences. - โ€œYou played sports? Me too. What did you play?โ€ - โ€œI moved here a few years ago as well โ€” where from?โ€ Closing the Conversation: 9. Ask their name. โ€œBy the way - whatโ€™s your name?โ€ (Optional: handshake) If they ask your name back, thatโ€™s a good sign. 10. End with a bridge. If the vibe is good: - โ€œHey, I donโ€™t want to take up your whole day - whatโ€™s the best way for us to stay in touch?โ€ If not: โ€“ Let it flow naturally. Familiarity builds trust over time. Know someone who could use this? Send it their way. #dating #loveing cartoon status #couples #self-improvement #psychology